UnBooks:Embracing Mediocrity
A self help book for losers – like you.
Unless you never learned to read,
in which case ... never mind.
Through the curtain
You're fat, pushing forty, and faced with the realization that the boy who once dreamed of becoming an astronaut is no more. A man has taken his place and, rather than sitting in the cockpit of a capsule awaiting the thrust of booster rockets that will wrestle him from the grasp of Earth's gravity, he's instead wrestling in the tight grip of an armchair that fit comfortably many beers ago.
The youthful dream of breaking through the stratosphere is also gone, replaced with more immediately pressing concerns like, "Will my breaking wind be sufficiently contained by the fabric of this armchair, or will I set off the smoke alarms again?"
It's nothing to be embarrassed about. It happens to everyone. Yes, farting too, but also the understanding that you've achieved as much in life as you're going to, and are now on the cusp of a great journey along the Plateau of Irrelevance, before that long, slow descent down the Mortal Coil of Utter Obscurity, until reaching your eventual destination six feet below ground where you can find real use in a task ideally suited to your overstuffed cheese-doodle-nurtured carcass – as nutritious food for a variety of underground creatures, and rich fertilizer for the grass that your loved ones would have been weeping on ... had you not been a complete nincompoop and alienated them with your self-absorbed hermit-like isolationist tendencies.
Of course, all this assumes that some other human being actually deemed you worthy of their hand in marriage. Or, failing that, in the very least selected you as the lucky recipient of three-and-a-half minutes of semi-unbridled carnal enjoyment behind the supermarket dumpster – a bit of coital celebration after a successful diving expedition to liberate day-old doughnuts from their steely prison.
However poorly you fared in the game of life, remember, everyone – even truly worthy people who managed to achieve something significant in life – will have to face this change at some point.
Introduction
If you're reading this without assistance, congratulations. You've achieved something in life! Language is the primary characteristic that separates humankind from lower creatures, like bookies and valet car park attendants. Even lower primates know the odds on betting for those teams that somehow always have a spectacular season, but choke like amateurs in the playoffs. And, if you needed reminding, even a meerkat can drive a five-speed stick.
If you're not reading this, then someone else is obviously reading this for you. Congratulations! You've made a friend, or are at least able to run faster than the person you've duped into this chore. By the way, did you know you can order free pizza by dialing 9-1-1? Tell your friend to order you one now.
Taking inventory
Not everyone can achieve everything. If they could, then the value of "everything" would be essentially nothing. You may not be capable of achieving a great many things, or even a scant few things, but everyone can achieve something. Make a list of those somethings. Keep the list around, and refer to it when you are feeling insignificant. Remember to focus on the positives. Some examples follow:
Accepting yourself
The first step in becoming a fully self-actualized washout, is to accept that you did the best you could with what life gave you. Now, you can settle for taking pride in the things you achieved (and listed in the previous section), or, you can fortify your self-indulgent justification for being a dud by making a list of the people who failed you in life, and describing how their negligence pushed you along the path to becoming a complete flop.
The possibilities are endless. Chances are, if you think hard enough, just about everyone you've ever met has contributed to your downfall in some way. List them all. And, if you've got the time, rank them in order of how much they upset you. Then, use Google to find out where they're living nowadays and pay them each a personal visit. They'll probably apologize if you explain it to them convincingly.
Loving yourself
This should be self evident; you've probably already been doing it for years because of the unexplained thirty-year drought you've been experiencing, date-wise. Self-love is something that is generally mastered by most all young boys before the age of five. Should you require additional information on techniques, turn to the experts. Seeing as Dr. Ruth Westheimer has you on her "Not Allowed On Air" list, check and see if any of the local Community Access TV channels or radio stations have their own call-in shows. If they've banned you too, there's always Yahoo Groups. Picsearch.com also has some lovely, educational images you might enjoy.
Empowering yourself
This, the third and final step, establishes your indispensability in the world, despite the job you do. Feel free to educate people about your essential role in the operation of society, and if they baulk, use your secret powers to extract revenge.
Remember, the only real power you have is the power that you take for yourself. So think about how much influence you have over the lives of others, remind them of it periodically, and punish the non-believers. You too can be at peace with yourself, whether you're the municipal Dog Catcher, or something truly low and unsavoury, like Speaker of the House of Representatives.
