I would laugh at a strong masculine man over the age 7 with this name. Totty sounds tooooooo cute. Hate it for a strong man! Love it for a priss, especially at age 3. Makes a good nickname for toddler, if you know what I mean.
This is my actual name, people don’t usually associate it with the sexual meaning of the name. I was named after the book ‘Tottie’ where Tottie is actually the oldest doll in the house so it’s not really a toddler name. I’m 16 years old by the way and I still use Totty as my name :)
I MUCH prefer the nickname LOTTIE, for Charlotte. As in Lottie Moon, a missionary to China who starved to death because she gave her rations to starving Chinese children in a famine. Great woman, no matter what your religion! I don't see where TOTTY comes from Charlotte anyway, anyone, any ideas?
I've seen this name spelled Tati short for Tatiana which is a beautiful name I think. So when the little girl does grow up she can use Tatiana or Tiana or whatever she prefers.