Then said she, Sit still, my daughter, until you know how the matter will fall: for the man will not be in rest, until he have finished the thing this day.
Sit still
Psalm 37:3-5 Trust in the LORD, and do good; so shalt thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shalt be fed…
Isaiah 28:16 Therefore thus saith the Lord GOD, Behold, I lay in Zion for a foundation a stone, a tried stone, a precious corner stone, a sure foundation: he that believeth shall not make haste.
Isaiah 30:7 For the Egyptians shall help in vain, and to no purpose: therefore have I cried concerning this, Their strength is to sit still.
until you find out how things go,
This phrase indicates anticipation and uncertainty about the outcome of Ruth's proposal to Boaz. It reflects the cultural practice of seeking a kinsman-redeemer, as outlined in Leviticus 25:25-55, where a relative could redeem a family member in distress. The outcome is uncertain, but there is hope in the process.
for he will not rest
Boaz is portrayed as a man of action and integrity, committed to resolving the situation. This mirrors the character of God, who is depicted as a redeemer who does not rest until His purposes are fulfilled, as seen in Isaiah 62:1. Boaz's diligence foreshadows Christ's redemptive work, who also did not rest until He accomplished salvation.
unless he has resolved the matter today.
The urgency in Boaz's actions reflects the cultural importance of resolving legal and familial obligations promptly. This resolution is crucial for Ruth and Naomi's future security. The immediacy also points to the certainty of God's promises, as seen in 2 Corinthians 1:20, where all promises find their "Yes" in Christ. Boaz's role as a redeemer is a type of Christ, who resolves the matter of sin and redemption for humanity.
– Naomi speaks tenderly, calling Ruth “my daughter,” underscoring their family bond and Naomi’s authority as mentor (see Ruth 2:2).
– The first word is “wait.” Faith often begins with stillness:
• Psalm 27:14, “Wait patiently for the LORD; be strong and courageous.”
• Exodus 14:13, “Stand firm and you will see the deliverance the LORD will bring you today.”
– Naomi is teaching Ruth that obedience isn’t only doing; sometimes it’s refusing to rush ahead of God.
– Ruth has done all that was right and honorable (Ruth 3:10–11). Now the outcome rests with the Lord working through Boaz.
– Trust keeps us anchored:
• Proverbs 3:5-6 urges us to “trust in the LORD with all your heart… He will make your paths straight.”
• Psalm 37:5 commits our way to Him, promising “He will act.”
• Romans 8:28 reminds us God works “all things together for good” for those who love Him.
– Naomi’s counsel: let God reveal the next step rather than forcing it.
– Naomi is confident in Boaz’s character. His diligence was evident in the harvest field (Ruth 2:4-9); it will be the same in the city gates.
• Proverbs 22:29 points to the skilled, diligent man who “will serve before kings.”
• John 5:17 shows a greater Redeemer: “My Father is always at His work… and I too am working.”
• Luke 19:10, “The Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost,” mirrors Boaz’s resolute pursuit of Ruth’s welfare.
– Boaz’s indefatigable care models Christ’s relentless commitment to redeem.
– The word “today” stresses urgency. God’s purposes move forward without delay when the time is right.
• Deuteronomy 24:15 commands prompt fulfillment of duty; Boaz will do no less.
• Isaiah 42:4 foretells of the Servant who “will not grow weak or discouraged till He has established justice.”
• 2 Corinthians 6:2 proclaims, “Now is the day of salvation.” Boaz’s haste foreshadows Christ’s finished work accomplished “in a single day” (Zechariah 3:9).
– Naomi’s assurance encourages Ruth—and us—that godly responsibility joined to God’s timing produces swift, decisive action.
Naomi’s words blend patient waiting with confident expectation. Ruth is to rest, not in idleness, but in trust—knowing Boaz’s proven character and God’s sovereign hand will bring the matter to completion without delay. Scripture consistently links waiting with faith, diligent action with redemption, and urgency with God’s appointed time. In Ruth 3:18 we see a glimpse of the gospel rhythm: be still, watch God work, and rejoice when the Redeemer swiftly secures what He has promised.
(18) Will not be in rest.--i.e., will not keep quiet.IV.Verse 18. - And she said, Sit still, my daughter, till that thou know how the affair will fall out, for the man will not rest unless he complete the affair today. In saying, Sit still, my daughter, it is as if Naomi had said, "There is no occasion for restless anxiety. Let your heart be at ease till that thou know how the affair will fall out." In the Hebrew the noun is without the article. But in English it must be supplied, unless a plural be employed - "how 'things' will fall out.' דָּבָר, thing, i.e. think. Compare the corresponding relation between the German sache and sagen.
שְׁבִ֣י (šə·ḇî)
Verb - Qal - Imperative - feminine singular
Strong's 3427: To sit down, to dwell, to remain, to settle, to marry
my daughter,”
בִתִּ֔י (ḇit·tî)
Noun - feminine singular construct | first person common singular
Strong's 1323: A daughter
said Naomi,
וַתֹּ֙אמֶר֙ (wat·tō·mer)
Conjunctive waw | Verb - Qal - Consecutive imperfect - third person feminine singular
Strong's 559: To utter, say
“until
עַ֚ד (‘aḏ)
Preposition
Strong's 5704: As far as, even to, up to, until, while
you find out
תֵּֽדְעִ֔ין (tê·ḏə·‘în)
Verb - Qal - Imperfect - second person feminine singular | Paragogic nun
Strong's 3045: To know
how
אֵ֖יךְ (’êḵ)
Interjection
Strong's 349: How?, how!, where
things
דָּבָ֑ר (dā·ḇār)
Noun - masculine singular
Strong's 1697: A word, a matter, thing, a cause
go,
יִפֹּ֣ל (yip·pōl)
Verb - Qal - Imperfect - third person masculine singular
Strong's 5307: To fall, lie
for
כִּ֣י (kî)
Conjunction
Strong's 3588: A relative conjunction
he
הָאִ֔ישׁ (hā·’îš)
Article | Noun - masculine singular
Strong's 376: A man as an individual, a male person
will not
לֹ֤א (lō)
Adverb - Negative particle
Strong's 3808: Not, no
rest
יִשְׁקֹט֙ (yiš·qōṭ)
Verb - Qal - Imperfect - third person masculine singular
Strong's 8252: To be quiet or undisturbed
unless
כִּֽי־ (kî-)
Conjunction
Strong's 3588: A relative conjunction
he has resolved
כִּלָּ֥ה (kil·lāh)
Verb - Piel - Perfect - third person masculine singular
Strong's 3615: To be complete, at an end, finished, accomplished, or spent
the matter
הַדָּבָ֖ר (had·dā·ḇār)
Article | Noun - masculine singular
Strong's 1697: A word, a matter, thing, a cause
today.”
הַיּֽוֹם׃ (hay·yō·wm)
Article | Noun - masculine singular
Strong's 3117: A day
Ruth 3:18 NLT
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OT History: Ruth 3:18 Then said she Sit still my daughter (Ru Rut.)