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The True Self Is the Person You Want Others to Believe You Are 4 minutes read.
"The true self is how we fondly imagine we could be. When we act in accordance with that ideal, then we think, That’s who I am. When we stray from it, we think, That’s not me. A related idea has been discussed by the psychologist and relationship researcher Eli Finkel, who talks about the Michelangelo phenomenon. "In Michelangelo’s mind," Finkel writes, "the David existed within the rock before sculpting began." The idea is that in healthy marriages, each partner helps foster the other’s best self." -- Rob Henderson with an intriguing thought exercise. Being authentic is living in our future state?
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Antifragility Is a Fragile Concept 4 minutes read.
"Chaos Engineering can be used to remove points of fragility in a system; however, that’s an unnecessary limitation on the value of Chaos Engineering. The more powerful property of Chaos Engineering is that it provides humans with a signal of the safety margin within which they operate. It empowers the people doing the actual work of building and maintaining the system. It puts them in a better position to navigate the chaos inherent in a complex system, prioritize and optimize for the stated and unstated business goals as they go, and respond to unforeseen events when they do happen." -- Humans are part of the (complex) system. We help them learn how to operate within incidents, both technically but also mentally.
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