Stop Being Who You Aren’t 5 minutes read.
"Rather than pretending that everything was okay, when it wasn’t, we both opened up to each other, and I will always be grateful that we did. [...] I’m not advocating for careless or excessive vulnerability, though. Vulnerability is like fire, which, when handled well, can cook meals, heat homes, and ward off predators. But when it’s handled poorly, it can burn you. I encourage you to get familiar with the felt experience of safe vulnerability. It’s just a little bit past your comfort zone, but not so far past it that it would put you off being vulnerable again if your moment of courage backfires. [...] Stay alive to the moments when you could step into that tender space just outside of your comfort zone and see if the person you’re with joins you in it." -- Michael Ashcroft with beautiful words and life advice. This can be helpful for us at work and outside of it. Life as an archaeologist (vs. architect) is a great mindset.
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Fire and Motion 6 minutes read.
"An object at rest tends to remain at rest. [...] Maybe this is the key to productivity: just getting started. Maybe when pair programming works it works because when you schedule a pair programming session with your buddy, you force each other to get started." -- This is why I love practical self (and peer) pressure using deadlines (e.g., setting a meeting to present your work in 2 days) or working with someone else to kickstart a significant effort.
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