Use dlist/dclist instead of PROC_QUEUE / SHM_QUEUE for heavyweight locks
Part of a series to remove SHM_QUEUE. ilist.h style lists are more widely used
and have an easier to use interface.
As PROC_QUEUE is now unused, remove it.
Reviewed-by: Thomas Munro <thomas.munro@gmail.com> (in an older version)
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